How to Develop Executive Presence with Effective Communication Skills

Dec 29, 2021 | Leadership Mindset, Online Resources, Personal Sustainability, Team Effectiveness

When I say the words “executive presence” which leader comes to mind that most exemplifies this for you?

Have you ever wondered how you could develop executive presence and grow your impact as a leader?

If you’re nodding along, keep reading. We’re going to walk you through three aspects of executive presence + how to develop them.

Want to develop executive presence in your organization with expert guidance? Book a leadership demo and see how our executive coaching programs can support your goals.

1. Mastering Clarity to Strengthen Your Executive Presence

Nobody likes confusing directions, meetings that run long or guidance that’s hard to follow. Increase your executive presence by strengthening your executive communication skills — especially around setting clear expectations upfront.

Make your intentions clear + make sure you’re easy to follow.

Many times I see executives speak on a topic and I think to myself, “What is the purpose of their communication? What am I listening for? Do they want my feedback on something specific? Are they asking for a decision? What do I need to pay attention to?”

Want to sharpen your communication skills with a framework built for executives? Explore our Leadership EDGE course for tools that build clarity and influence.

When people don’t know what to listen for, their minds are more likely to wander.

These days I nip this in the bud. When one of my C-suite clients starts a diatribe, I’ll stop them and say, “Tell me what I’m listening for, so I’ll know what to pay attention to.” 

It’s surprisingly easy to make your intentions clear — just share the outcome of what you’re hoping to achieve upfront.

Instead of starting with “Here’s what happened…” say “I’d like to get your opinion on how I should handle a conflict on my team, so I’ll start with some context. Here’s what happened…”

See how much clearer that is? And you’re much more likely to get the outcome and support you need!

Be explicit about your expectations + what you’re asking for.

Again, just tell your people what you want. Right there in the presentation slides or in the meeting agenda or at the top of the conversation lay out your goals and expectations.

Those with strong executive presence practice effective leadership communication — laying out goals in a clear, concise way and directing the conversation the way they need it to go to achieve the result.

If you’re looking to improve leadership communication skills across your team, schedule a demo to learn about our targeted coaching and training programs.

Strengthening leadership communication is a core part of growth—just make sure you avoid the common leadership development mistakes that can stall progress.

Strengthening leadership communication is a core part of growth—just make sure you avoid the common leadership development mistakes that can stall progress.

2. Leadership Authority: The Role of Trust and Intention in Influence

Authority isn’t about speaking in a loud voice and name dropping all the conferences you’ve keynoted. True authority comes from the ability to build trust in leadership — rooted in consistency, clarity, and intention. Does your team trust your competence, reliability and intention?

Find the authority from your intention, rather than leaning into your role or position.

Nobody appreciates when someone “pulls rank” or plays the “because I’m your boss” card. Instead, reference the intention behind your ask. If you need someone to work late on the new product launch, remind them of all the customers whose lives will be improved by this new product (rather than saying “Because I told you so”).

Shift away from traditional egoistic drives (being right, looking good) and into a meaningful “mission” outside of your ego-based needs.

Leaders are successful when their teams are successful. But it’s hard for a team to be successful when they’re brow-beaten by an executive with a “my way or the highway” approach. And it’s hard for a team to do their best work for a leader who is only concerned about how they look to others. I can always tell when a leader is truly committed to the mission — or more committed to looking good, being right or being in control.

Focus on the mission — a hallmark of authentic leadership — and how it impacts your company, clients, and other stakeholders. What’s in it for them? Put your attention there, and your communication will have the integrity and earned authority that exudes executive presence.

Ready to build trust-based leadership authority in your organization? Explore our executive coaching solutions and how they align with your mission-driven leadership goals.

 

3. Building Confidence in Leadership Through Executive Communication Skills

Confidence isn’t just good posture. True confidence is a combination of strength and warmth that brings people in and builds connections. In other words, it makes everyone around you feel at ease by your strength (“I know where to go”) and warmth (“I respect and care for you”).

Confidence isn’t just good posture. True confidence is a combination of strength and warmth that brings people in and builds connections.

As an executive, there are many ways to demonstrate confidence in leadership and sharpen your executive communication skills. You demonstrate confidence in speed of decision making, asking tough questions, admitting vulnerabilities. But let’s talk about how to showcase your confidence in conferences, meetings or presentation situations, as that’s where lack of confidence is most on display.

Public speaking can shake the confidence of even experienced professionals. Building public speaking confidence is essential to executive presence. Here’s the trick:

Move your attention away from your inner critic (that voice inside your head) to connecting with your audience.

This was one of the best things I learned from my post-graduate degree in acting from LAMDA (London Academy of Music and Dramatic Arts).

Rather than obsessing about how you look standing in front of people (What do I do with my hands?) or the typo in that slide, focus on how much the audience is learning from this presentation. Focus on what you think they need or how this information will shift their thinking.

To help you remember this in moments of stress: When in doubt, focus OUT.

And if you can use this method in a presentation setting, you can use it in a 1:1 setting as well!

Communicate confidence with the right pacing, vocal variety and gestures.

You know an unconfident speaker when you hear one. Maybe they mumble and rush through their presentation or speak in a monotone the entire time. Maybe they’ve got one go-to gesture that they repeat every time they want to make a point.

None of these things communicate confidence to the audience. If you’re not sure how you come across, ask someone to record a video of your next presentation.

Take a look at it and be honest with yourself. Where could you speed things up or slow them down? Could you lower or raise your voice for emphasis? What gestures could you introduce other than those air quotes you use all the time? People crave vocal variety — it’s a subtle but essential piece of leadership communication that keeps your message impactful.

 

 

Increasing your executive presence isn’t something that will happen overnight but, with some time and effort, it’s absolutely achievable.

Ready to Develop Executive Presence and Strengthen Leadership Communication?

If you’re looking to enhance executive presence across your senior leadership team, we offer proven frameworks, executive coaching, and leadership communication training designed to elevate your influence and impact. Our workshops include hands-on video practice and tailored feedback to help leaders build clarity, authority, and confidence.

Get in touch to explore how we can support your leadership development goals.

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When I say the words “executive presence” which leader comes to mind that most exemplifies this for you?

Have you ever wondered how you could develop executive presence and grow your impact as a leader?

If you’re nodding along, keep reading. We’re going to walk you through three aspects of executive presence + how to develop them.

Want to develop executive presence in your organization with expert guidance? Book a leadership demo and see how our executive coaching programs can support your goals.

1. Mastering Clarity to Strengthen Your Executive Presence

Nobody likes confusing directions, meetings that run long or guidance that’s hard to follow. Increase your executive presence by strengthening your executive communication skills — especially around setting clear expectations upfront.

Make your intentions clear + make sure you’re easy to follow.

Many times I see executives speak on a topic and I think to myself, “What is the purpose of their communication? What am I listening for? Do they want my feedback on something specific? Are they asking for a decision? What do I need to pay attention to?”

Want to sharpen your communication skills with a framework built for executives? Explore our Leadership EDGE course for tools that build clarity and influence.

When people don’t know what to listen for, their minds are more likely to wander.

These days I nip this in the bud. When one of my C-suite clients starts a diatribe, I’ll stop them and say, “Tell me what I’m listening for, so I’ll know what to pay attention to.” 

It’s surprisingly easy to make your intentions clear — just share the outcome of what you’re hoping to achieve upfront.

Instead of starting with “Here’s what happened…” say “I’d like to get your opinion on how I should handle a conflict on my team, so I’ll start with some context. Here’s what happened…”

See how much clearer that is? And you’re much more likely to get the outcome and support you need!

Be explicit about your expectations + what you’re asking for.

Again, just tell your people what you want. Right there in the presentation slides or in the meeting agenda or at the top of the conversation lay out your goals and expectations.

Those with strong executive presence practice effective leadership communication — laying out goals in a clear, concise way and directing the conversation the way they need it to go to achieve the result.

If you’re looking to improve leadership communication skills across your team, schedule a demo to learn about our targeted coaching and training programs.

Strengthening leadership communication is a core part of growth—just make sure you avoid the common leadership development mistakes that can stall progress.

Strengthening leadership communication is a core part of growth—just make sure you avoid the common leadership development mistakes that can stall progress.

2. Leadership Authority: The Role of Trust and Intention in Influence

Authority isn’t about speaking in a loud voice and name dropping all the conferences you’ve keynoted. True authority comes from the ability to build trust in leadership — rooted in consistency, clarity, and intention. Does your team trust your competence, reliability and intention?

Find the authority from your intention, rather than leaning into your role or position.

Nobody appreciates when someone “pulls rank” or plays the “because I’m your boss” card. Instead, reference the intention behind your ask. If you need someone to work late on the new product launch, remind them of all the customers whose lives will be improved by this new product (rather than saying “Because I told you so”).

Shift away from traditional egoistic drives (being right, looking good) and into a meaningful “mission” outside of your ego-based needs.

Leaders are successful when their teams are successful. But it’s hard for a team to be successful when they’re brow-beaten by an executive with a “my way or the highway” approach. And it’s hard for a team to do their best work for a leader who is only concerned about how they look to others. I can always tell when a leader is truly committed to the mission — or more committed to looking good, being right or being in control.

Focus on the mission — a hallmark of authentic leadership — and how it impacts your company, clients, and other stakeholders. What’s in it for them? Put your attention there, and your communication will have the integrity and earned authority that exudes executive presence.

Ready to build trust-based leadership authority in your organization? Explore our executive coaching solutions and how they align with your mission-driven leadership goals.

 

3. Building Confidence in Leadership Through Executive Communication Skills

Confidence isn’t just good posture. True confidence is a combination of strength and warmth that brings people in and builds connections. In other words, it makes everyone around you feel at ease by your strength (“I know where to go”) and warmth (“I respect and care for you”).

Confidence isn’t just good posture. True confidence is a combination of strength and warmth that brings people in and builds connections.

As an executive, there are many ways to demonstrate confidence in leadership and sharpen your executive communication skills. You demonstrate confidence in speed of decision making, asking tough questions, admitting vulnerabilities. But let’s talk about how to showcase your confidence in conferences, meetings or presentation situations, as that’s where lack of confidence is most on display.

Public speaking can shake the confidence of even experienced professionals. Building public speaking confidence is essential to executive presence. Here’s the trick:

Move your attention away from your inner critic (that voice inside your head) to connecting with your audience.

This was one of the best things I learned from my post-graduate degree in acting from LAMDA (London Academy of Music and Dramatic Arts).

Rather than obsessing about how you look standing in front of people (What do I do with my hands?) or the typo in that slide, focus on how much the audience is learning from this presentation. Focus on what you think they need or how this information will shift their thinking.

To help you remember this in moments of stress: When in doubt, focus OUT.

And if you can use this method in a presentation setting, you can use it in a 1:1 setting as well!

Communicate confidence with the right pacing, vocal variety and gestures.

You know an unconfident speaker when you hear one. Maybe they mumble and rush through their presentation or speak in a monotone the entire time. Maybe they’ve got one go-to gesture that they repeat every time they want to make a point.

None of these things communicate confidence to the audience. If you’re not sure how you come across, ask someone to record a video of your next presentation.

Take a look at it and be honest with yourself. Where could you speed things up or slow them down? Could you lower or raise your voice for emphasis? What gestures could you introduce other than those air quotes you use all the time? People crave vocal variety — it’s a subtle but essential piece of leadership communication that keeps your message impactful.

 

 

Increasing your executive presence isn’t something that will happen overnight but, with some time and effort, it’s absolutely achievable.

Ready to Develop Executive Presence and Strengthen Leadership Communication?

If you’re looking to enhance executive presence across your senior leadership team, we offer proven frameworks, executive coaching, and leadership communication training designed to elevate your influence and impact. Our workshops include hands-on video practice and tailored feedback to help leaders build clarity, authority, and confidence.

Get in touch to explore how we can support your leadership development goals.

Let’s be honest: if you’re waiting for things to “settle down,” you’re going to be waiting a long time. 

Disruption isn’t a phase—it’s the backdrop of modern business. Market volatility, supply chain issues, AI-driven competition… The only thing certain about the future is that it’s uncertain. 

So why do some leaders thrive in this chaos while others struggle to keep up? 

It’s not luck. It’s resilience. 

Resilient leaders don’t just react to disruption. They anticipate, adapt, and make bold moves—even when they don’t have all the answers. They don’t get stuck in hesitation or overwhelmed by uncertainty. 

If you want to be the kind of leader who guides your team through disruption with confidence—not the one scrambling to keep up—start strengthening these five traits today. 

75% of employees with highly empathetic managers report being committed to their jobs, compared to just 33% of those with less empathetic managers

1. Adaptability: Pivot Without Losing Focus

Here’s the truth: rigid leaders get left behind. 

A McKinsey study found that companies that adjusted their business models quickly during the COVID-19 crisis saw 30% higher revenue growth than those that hesitated. That’s because adaptability isn’t just about surviving change—it’s about staying ahead of it. 

The best leaders make adaptability part of their strategy, not just a last-minute scramble. 

organizations promoting collaboration are 20% more likely to outperform their peers.

Try this: 

  • Create a “Rapid Response” Team. Who’s your go-to group when unexpected challenges hit? In private equity, this might be specialists who stabilize newly acquired firms. In tech, it could be a cross-functional team monitoring AI-driven market shifts. 
  • Run “Pre-Mortems.” Before launching a new initiative, ask: “If this fails, why will it fail?” This helps you identify blind spots before they become real problems. 
  • Use Scenario Planning. Instead of betting on one outcome, map out multiple possibilities. How will you pivot if market conditions shift faster than expected? 

Great leaders don’t get stuck in outdated models. They stay flexible and keep their teams moving forward.

 

2. Clear Workplace Communication: Bring Order to Uncertainty

 

Uncertainty breeds fear. And when people are scared, silence from leadership is the fastest way to lose trust. 

But too many leaders either communicate too little (leaving their teams confused) or too much (burying them in irrelevant details). 

Gallup research shows that employees who trust their leaders are 61% more likely to stay with their company. That trust is built through consistent, clear, and confident communication. 

 

Try this: 

  • Use the 3-Point Messaging Model every time you update your team:  
  • What we know – Provide facts, not speculation. 
  • What we don’t know – Acknowledge uncertainty rather than making empty promises. 
  • What we’re doing next – Outline the next steps, even if they evolve. 
  • Follow the “5-15” Rule. Five-minute high-level updates keep teams informed, while 15-minute deep dives should be reserved for when they’re actually needed. 
  • Master Radical Candor. Be direct and empathetic. Teams don’t need sugarcoating, but they also don’t need unnecessary panic. The best leaders strike that balance. 

Resilient leaders bring clarity when everything else feels chaotic.

 

3. Emotional Intelligence in the Workplace: Stay Steady Under Pressure

 

Ever walked into a room and immediately felt the tension? 

That’s leadership energy at work. Whether they mean to or not, leaders set the emotional tone for their teams. 

If you’re panicked, your team will be too. If you’re distracted, they’ll feel unmoored.  

A Workforce Institute study found that 1 in 3 employees feel their manager doesn’t recognize the emotional impact they have on their team. 

Accountability isn’t about micromanagement—it’s about trust.

Try this: 

 

  • Know your triggers. When do you get defensive? When does frustration creep in? Self-awareness is step one to self-regulation. 
  • Read the room. Pay attention to signs of burnout or disengagement. If energy is low, it’s time to reset expectations and reinforce support. 
  • Listen first. Instead of jumping straight to solutions, ask, “What do you need most from me right now?” 

Resilient leaders don’t just manage operations—they create stability in uncertain environments. Developing emotional intelligence is a core pillar of modern executive coaching and high-performing team dynamics.

 

4. Decisive Leadership: Make Bold Calls Without All the Data

 

Ever heard someone say, “I just need more information before I decide”—and then… they never actually make the call? 

Waiting for perfect data is a great way to miss an opportunity. 

In fast-moving industries like technology—where AI and cybersecurity risks shift overnight—executive leaders must decide fast or get left behind. 

 

Try this: 

 

  • Use the 70% Rule. Make decisions when you have 70% of the information you wish you had. If you wait for certainty, you’ll be too late. 
  • Apply the OODA Loop (Observe, Orient, Decide, Act). This military framework helps leaders move quickly in uncertain environments: 
    • Observe – Gather what intelligence you can.
    • Orient – Analyze the situation with your best available information.
    • Decide – Make the best call with what you know.
    • Act – Move forward, adjusting as new data emerges. 
  • Trust your expertise. The best leaders recognize when a decision is “good enough” to move forward—and refine later. 

Case in point: Microsoft’s Satya Nadella bet on cloud computing before the market fully shifted. His bold decision doubled Microsoft’s valuation. That’s the power of decisiveness over hesitation.

 

5. Forward Thinking: Anticipate Disruption Before It Happens

 

The best leaders don’t just react to disruption—they see it coming. 

PwC’s CEO Survey consistently finds that leaders who prioritize strategic foresight outperform competitors during downturns. 

They invest in resilience before they need it. 

 

Try this: 

 

  • Build a Leadership Pipeline. Private equity firms restructuring companies often develop future leaders early—so they’re not scrambling when a key executive leaves. 
  • Use Predictive Analytics. AI-driven forecasting helps healthcare and tech executives spot market shifts before competitors react. 
  • Foster a Culture of Proactive Problem-Solving. Encourage employees to anticipate challenges instead of reacting in real time. 

Companies led by forward-thinking executives are 2.8 times more likely to be industry leaders in five years. Those who prepare today win tomorrow. 

 

Resilience Isn’t a Trait—It’s a Leadership Skill 

 

The best executives don’t just get through disruption—they use it as a competitive advantage. 

Strengthening these five traits requires deliberate effort: 

  • Adaptability – Build flexibility into your strategy before you need it.
  • Communication – Bring clarity and confidence to uncertainty. 
  • Emotional Intelligence – Regulate stress and keep teams engaged. 
  • Decisiveness – Move fast with limited information. 
  • Forward Thinking – Prepare for the next disruption before it hits. 

Resilience in the workplace isn’t about survival—it’s about positioning yourself for long-term success. 

Accountability isn’t about micromanagement—it’s about trust.

Ready to Lead With More Resilience? 

At Meritage Leadership, we offer executive leadership development programs that help executives build resilience in the workplace, foster accountability, and lead high-performing teams with clarity, confidence, and impact.

If you’re ready to build resilience into your leadership strategy, let’s talk. 

Learn More at www.meritageleadership.com 

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